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The following posting are solely my opinions. Any resemblance to characters or scenarios dead or alive is solely due to coincidence or you’re one heck of a hag!
If u think u r one...I'll say this...I hate U!You stink real bad!
... if u r not...then just brush it off will ya?

As I get older I find I have a decreasing tolerance for insensitiveness. Some women turn a blind eye to their own personality flaws. They say things like, " I'm real blunt. I say things honestly and then I forgive you immediately. I can forget about the whole issue by the next minute."

Well,Abu Hurairah ( (SWT)

) reported that the Prophet (may the peace & blessings of Allah (SWT)

be upon him) said:
"Whosoever believes in Allah (SWT)

and the Last Day, then let him speak good or remain silent."[Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree]

I know at times, I do possess faults (who doesn't, we r after all humans) but if this particular person picks on me and display my faults and say hurtful things and the next minute, she forgets...I think that's not fair.
You may be forgiving...but I don't. I don't forgive and forget that easily. Once a person hurt me badly with words, that's it. My security shield comes up and I do get affected by it.
These women are sarcastic, cynical beings. They often say things so hatefully and hurt everybody. Sticks and stones do bruise and no one likes to be told they are at fault with such force and shame.

I hate such people who thinks they are more superior than the others. Just because you have a position, you think have the privilege of berating people. Let me tell you the hard truth. Position means nothing if you don't command the respect from us. What is there in a your status? Just because you are longer in the service doesn't mean you deserve that position. I guess in this workplace, years in service=loyalty=position. When one is in a position, one needs to understand her co-workers better and serve as mentors and role models to us, sharing with us their teaching expertise and content knowledge. What have you shared? You have not at the pinnacle yet so shut the crap up!

These people are everywhere. We are infested by them. We are surrounded by these so called 'honest' people who thinks they are 100% right. The others like me, we just can't be bothered but we do get hurt in the process. Personally, I find your snide remarks hurtful.

If you have nothing to say, zip it! I am tired of being nice and overlooking the remarks. I will not be silent the next time, I will let them know they are uncalled for and spiteful.

A man came to The Prophet of Allâh, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, saying, " 'O Prophet of Allâh, command me.' The Prophet replied, ' Do not lose your temper.' " (Bukhaaree). The Prophet, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, also said, "Strength is in the power to control oneself in anger, not in the size of the muscles."

Tuesday, December 05, 2006